Monday, November 9, 2009


I'm trying to play a game of catch up here so this will be a cornucopia post about what we've been up to lately.

Labwork and pre-surgery bloodwork.......... $50

Anesthesia.......... $115

Removal of 2 tumors(probably malignant).......... $130

Fluids, hospitalization, and take home meds.......... $70

A happy, healthier dog (that doesn't have a tumor hanging from his chest that looks like a long, black, flat, disgusting dangly nipple).......... PRICELESS

Bodi has one more tumor on his elbow that the vet said we could remove but it would require removing his whole leg. The poor dog is already 84 years old (in dog years). We prefer that he enjoy his last days on 4 stable legs rather than turning him into a geriatric tripod.

Halloween was a cinch this year despite the 4 different days I had to dress up the kids for their various parties, parades, etc. One dirtbiker, a zombie dirtbiker, and a white ninja and we called it a holliday. Halloween morning began with an old, nosy neighbor stopping by to offer some input on how to raise my children. I know he's from the old school and I know it takes a village but.... he's not a part of my village. My ego is still trying to get over it's resentment toward him. He purchased some See's Candy for our school fundraiser and that should be enough to redeem him but I'm still trying to get over it. Luckily I had a running date with a friend so I had 10 miles to blow off some steam and vent. We accidentally ran 12 miles. Trunk or Treat was fun. For the first time that I can remember there was music, a cakewalk, and a parade! Fun. Ward Activity Chairperson.... if you're reading this.... which I know you are..... next year Halloween falls on a Sunday. Wouldn't it be fun to have a family dance after the Trunk or Treat? Please? Pretty please?

My little brother is now a Daddy. Oh... she is the most precious little thing. And I love how he looks at her when he holds her. Not that he got to hold her too much when I was there. I think I was quite the baby hog. I've always known Drake would be a good dad. Everytime I had a new baby he would just sit and hold them and snuggle them. And I don't think I ever changed a diaper when he was around. He's a real man.... doesn't mind if they're wet or poopy, he'll change 'em all.

Now my kids have some cousins on my side of the family. And I have to take a moment to give some props to my brother. He's a very hard worker and has a goal to keep mom home with baby which I know is a very tough thing in this economy. I've seen him grow in leaps and bounds the last 5 years or so. We're 7 years apart and I'm looking forward to experiencing our relationship evolve and grow now that he has a little one of his own.

We've recently announced to family & friends that we are expecting Baby #4. It took us a while to get to this point. There were highs and lows. Tears and prayers. Long talks and eternal silence. But our prayers have been answered in just such a way that we know that this is God's will for our family. It would have been so easy to move into the next stage of life, especially with our youngest child being 4 years old, and we almost did just that. But Heavenly Father has a plan for us and I'm grateful that our faith in Him and our desire to do what he would have us do is stronger than our logical fears and concerns. And I'm grateful for those around us who are instruments in His hands who help us see beyond what our own human eyes can see. Like Brandon has said..."Don't ever let anyone think we are not high adventure people. Having a baby in a recession? It doesn't get any more high adventure than that." But everything will be okay. It will all work out.

All is well.


Stefani said...

well, good to see you back in the blogging world! And yes I'm already booking stuff for next halloween. It would be really fun to have a parking lot dance and carnival etc. Glad you had fun this year!

I loved reading all about your happenings - and I have to say that having kids put my sister and me much more on the same page than ever before. It's a great thing!

Janae Sowards said...

COngradulations on the the new little one that you are expecting! Justin and I are very very very excited for you and your family! You kids were dressed in awesome costumes for Halloween! Sorry about the Nosy neighbor! I understand with triplet plus one I get unneeded/unwanted advise all the time! Sometimes it is so hard to just shut my mouth and smile! Anyways I hope all is going well with you and the pregnancy! KEEP US UPDATED!

Eric and Lydia said...

Oh, Drake's baby is so beautiful! Tell him congrats from Eric and Lydia! And I don't think anyone would ever use the words "not high adventure people" in the same sentence as "Brandon and Tiffiny"!

Miss you! I think I might have to man up and plan our little vacay myself - Eric is never here.

annette said...

That picture of your brother holding his baby girl is priceless! And you, look at you! You are such a cute mom. So excited for you and the new baby on the way. We just love our high adventure friends, the Sowards!!!

debbie said...

i am so excited we get to go thru this together. back in june, we were on the fence, now we are both prego:)

love ya girl!

Caroline said...

So fun to read your cornucopia post:-) I, too, LOVED trunk or treat this year! A dance next year afterward would be, PERFECTION! And we are so excited for your family to get a little bigger! Babies bring a sweetness to a home that is immeasurable. Love you all!