Friday, July 24, 2009

You only turn 4 once...... or do you?????




So far, Reef has had 3 birthdays this year. The first one was actually Brandon's birthday but the Chevy's waitress was confused and sang to Reef instead. As I was giggling over the whole sombrero saga Reef ran around the table, threw his arms around my neck and said, "Are you excited because it's my birthday?"


Wednesday was his real birthday. We celebrated by taking the kids to Gilroy Gardens where Reef got to help out in the bird show and go on both roller coasters for the first time ever!! Turning 4 has it's perks, people.






Reef chose Chili's for his birthday dinner (with a little bit of subliminal messaging from mom & dad.) I have to hand it to Chili's. They used to give the birthday person a chocolate milkshake but have now stepped it up to Chocolate Molten Lava Cake.




After all the fun and food Reef just couldn't keep his 4 year old eyeballs open any longer. He fell asleep in the car and didn't even have the chance to open his presents.


That's how the third 4th birthday was born.... that next morning Reef was finally able to open his presents. Everybody knows that a birthday isn't complete unless you blow out the candles & make a wish. So we had another night of birthday dessert complete with off key singing of the birthday song. Nothing too major.... choclate muffins from Costco & some vanilla ice cream. I mean, we don't want to spoil the kid or anything.

Four things we adore about our Reefy

1) His humor. This kid keeps us (and others) laughing for days. He's a total ham and will do or say anything to entertain those around him. Hmmmm.... sounds a lot like his Daddy.

2) His heart. Under that funny and independent exterior he is a total sweety. He wears his heart on his sleeve and all it takes is a little empathy and TLC then all his cares are quickly forgotten.

3) His enthusiasm. He's game for anything. He has such a zest for life and loves trying new things.

4) His cuddles. Ever since he was a baby he would literally "melt" into you. We've always felt a certain 'soothingness' (is that a word?) when we cuddle with him. And he still lets us kiss all over his warm, soft cheeks.

Happy Birthday, Reef (again). We love you!

Monday, June 8, 2009

The REAL Monday... No kidding this time!

And that, my friends, is why I started eatting "clean" again and made a goal to hit the gym every day. Wish me luck!!

Saturday, June 6, 2009

Eye and Ear Candy

It's been said that The eyes are the windows to the soul. I tend to disagree. Look at this lovely "window".....




I've told you before how intoxicating this boy's giggles & laughs are. Well now it's visually pleasing as well. Um... not that it wasn't before. I mean, look at those dimples!!!





But now I'm on sensory overload anytime he finds the need to chuckle. Or simply smile. I can't peel my eyes away from him when he does this. I've tried. He's just too irresistable.


Oh, be still my heart.


Grow slow, little tooth.


Please. Grow. Slooooow!!!!



Now will somebody get this adorable boy a haircut before he bumps into a wall and knocks ALL of his teeth out?

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Laugh or Cry

"Either laugh or cry... that's all you can do." That's what my husband says when life throws you unexpected curveballs. If it weren't for a strong neck.... my head would have spun off already. Here's a run down of the last 6 days:

*The transmission of our trucked crapped out on us.
*The running lights & break lights of 2 dump trucks, the Bobcat trailer & my Suburban went out.
*Our Bobcat is misbehaving. The battery needed to be jumped dozens of times while on a job & the fan belt busted while loading it on a trailer.
*I ran out of gas in the Beamer on the way to taking kids to school. The fuel guage deceived me by saying the tank was 1/2 full.
*My Suburban battery flatlined leaving me almost stranded while picking up kids from school.
*One of the brackets holding up our speaker box on the boat is defective. Luckily we had a dog leash in the car to jimmy-rig it for the rest of the drive home from Paso Robles.
*I've been playing "hide & seek" with a high-maintenance contractor reluctant to pay his bill. We're currently financing his massive concrete job until I find him and have his legs broken. It's not what you know... it's WHO you know in the garbage business. "Fuh-get abouuuut it...." ;-)
*I've been helping Brandon play musical dump trucks from here to San Jose and everywhere in between for 4 consecutive days. My poor 3 year old has traveled over 500 miles with nothing exciting to show for it.
*The Hot Shift PTO (power take off) on our newly built dump truck failed the first time we used it thus snapping the drive shaft. Don't ask me any questions about this stuff. I only know the lingo, not the mechanics behind it.
*We worked our whole weekend from dawn 'til dusk shoveling dirt and concrete. The only break we took was for church. We even took the kids out to a job and forced some manual labor out of them. They normally get to ride on the Bobcat with Daddy when he is operating it but this time we swept & shoveled the tighter areas that the bucket was too large to maneuver into. This was actually a highlight for me, though. There's nothing wrong with kids learning how to work and I truly hope that one day my kids (especially my boys) will remember seeing their mom getting dirty side by side with their dad to help out in the family business.

All of this during the last two weeks of school when we're busy with talent shows, class parties, Olympic Day, honor roll assemblies, piano recital and an annual golf tournament thrown by my FIL in Lake Tahoe.

To quote Vanilla Ice... "Will It Ever Stop? Yo, I don't know"

I figured I should document our hellish week. Otherwise I might not believe it ever happened.

I've managed to chuckle and roll my eyes heavenward at the start of each mishap. I have yet to cry over any of it. So I guess I'm not in too bad of shape after all.

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Classifieds

WANTED
MWF (married white female) desperately seeking
Chevy's Sombrero. Left behind after a fun-filled
birthday dinner for DH (dear husband). Must have
forgotten it after enduring LHI (long haired indian)
dubbed "Apache Hendrix" and his heinous versions
of 1980's hits. CW (confused waitress) singing Happy
Birthday to my 3YO(year old) instead of to DH could
also be to blame for my TML (temporary memory loss).
DH insists you don't take Sombrero home. MWF contends
that you do. FDA would agree with MWF(...hello...lice!!!!)
REWARD for those who agree with MWF.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Fortified

Sometimes it's nice to do something different for Family Home Evening. Actually... let's be real.... sometimes it's nice to actually have Family Home Evening. We try really hard.

Sometimes.


We could definitely try harder. We always make sure that we are together on family nights but tend to justify baseball practice or a trip to the grocery store together as our activity and lesson.


But I've come to realize something. It doesn't always have to be about scripture reading, service, or family meetings. I need to stop feeling guilty when I don't plan ahead for a lesson and a treat. (Although that is the ideal goal.)

What we did last night was a treat in and of itself. It's something we've never done before but turned out to be a huge success. It was simple. It was fun. And although it wasn't something that taught my children to strive to be better people and it didn't teach them anything about Heavenly Father, church doctrine or the prophets... it definitely brought us closer together and strengthened our love for one another.



We built a fort.




And cuddled inside of it while reading books.




And sang songs like "Take Me Out To The Ball Game", "Three Blind Mice", and -upon Reef's request- "Another One Bites The Dust" by Queen.


And ate peanut butter/milk chocolate chips right out of the bag.

And we were happy.

And strengthened.

And fortified.



Wednesday, May 13, 2009

I miss the cartoons of my youth. Smurfs, He-Man, The Snorks, Gummi Bears, Scooby-Doo....

I can tell when my 3 year old has been watching too much Sponge Bob because every sentence ends with the word butt.
"Is it time for a bath?.....BUTT."
"Look at the fire engine!.....BUTT."
"Can I have a snack?....BUTT."
I never even used to let my kids watch Sponge Bob. I guess I've become way more lax in the raising of a 3rd child. But sometimes the good mom outwins the lax mom I turn off the tube in the middle of Patrick mooning the patrons of the Krusty Krab or when Sponge Bob and Patrick are going on a "panty-raid" at Mr. Crab's mother's house...... (I'm NOT making this up!!!)

Every time we come across Max & Ruby I can't help but think.... where are their parents? Ruby is always the one taking care of Max and I think they have a grandmother that comes around once in a while but the only other adult figure is the "Bunny Scout Leader" who really never is shown, only talked about. Do they not have parents? It seems very trivial but this is something I often wonder about.

I used to think you couldn't go too wrong with a kid show on PBS but I've noticed that when Reef watches too much Caillou he talks like a baby. And Mercedes seems to think that Caillou only teaches little ones how to throw a temper-tantrum.

Dora & Diego certainly don't need any censoring but lately Reef insists on praying in Spanish. We let him do it the first time he asked and it was really cute to hear his "version" of Spanish but now it's just becoming disruptive. He's recently begun to enjoy Nio-Hao, Kai-Lan so it's only a matter of time before he starts begging to pray in Chinese.

And Olivia? That show is just down right disturbing to me! And I'm not just saying that because of the whole overblown Swine Flu scare. Pigs in clothes prancing around on their hind legs? And it seems just about every episode has Olivia plotting some way to harm or get rid of her younger brother. The theme of that show seems to be sibling rivalry which I think we experience enough on our own without Nick Jr.'s help.

Don't even get me started on Yo Gabba Gabba. Who hired that acid-tripping writer?

But really I guess these annoyances and perplexities are something I can overlook. I have fond memories of eatting breakfast while watching Captain Kangaroo, The Polka-Dot Door, and The Great Space Coaster. Do I really want to rob my children of their own breakfast-time memories? Of course not. Now if you'll please excuse me... Back at the Barnyard just started.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Spring Break 2009:

DISCLAIMER: This post is long. It is detailed. It has a lot of photos. But this is how I scrapbook so this post was written without any thoughts for your time constraints. Feel free to read on. Just be prepared to feel totally unproductive for the next few minutes.


Our Mexican Riviera cruise back in February left us yearning for a family vacation with the kids. Sure we go camping several times a year & Disneyland is always an annual destination for us but we wanted our kids to experience a vacation like none they've gone on before. Less than 24 hours of stepping off our cruise we had another one booked... this time for 5!! And as long as we were giving them the opportunity to travel by sea, why not let them experience being hurled through the air at about 500 miles an hour? Thanks to Southwest and their $49 fares we were set to go. And what is a vacation without close, fun friends to hang with? We were stoked that the Lawrence's booked a cruise too!
So a little less than 2 months later the day had finally arrived. Unfortunately our departing flight was delayed 80 minutes but we found a cool Tech Museum display that entertained us all for quite some time. (SOOO much better than Sponge Bob!!) Something else that held Reef's attention was the bikini clad model on the cover of the Sports Illustrated magazine. "Look Mommy, she's pulling down her underwear!!" I decided making a big deal out of it would only fuel his curiosity so I turned the rack around and ushered him to the candy where Disneyland Daddy was letting the other kids pick out sugary sweets to wash down their breakfast. As we walked out of the store Reef spun the rack back around, and pointing with his hand over his mouth repeated his observation to his daddy barely making it through his giggles. "Don't look at that. It's bad." was Daddy's response. Reef's quick reply? " No.... it's gooooooood" Note to self: Keep an eye on that kid. He likes the ladies.




It was finally time to board. I felt just as giddy as my kids as I anticipated their response to their first ever plane ride. They certainly didn't let me down. Mercedes' delighted chuckles as her stomach was stolen away as we took off, Beau's face all lit up as he watched the city below shrink to nothingness & even Reef's continual question "Are we in the air, yet?" (even as we sat on the runway) all made the decision to fly vs. drive totally, absolutely, 110% worth it! I felt like I was experiencing my own first flight. They were absolutely ecstatic when we flew through the clouds. Brandon and I wordlessly communicated with winks & smiles as we sat back and watched our children's awe.





Walking through the airport wasn't a problem. We found a way to keep Reef from wandering off and everyone pulled their own weight.











After settling into our hotel room in Old Town San Diego we took the kids to the pool then hit the town. We toured an old cemetery, were serenaded by two Mariachis while eatting a yummy meal at Coyote Cafe --which I highly recommend-- and just walked around taking in this town so rich with history.
Victorian architecture is not really my style but the restored Victorians in Heritage Park were impressive. We didn't arrive in time to tour the inside of the homes or visit the shops here but had fun peeking through windows and enjoying the flora and fauna without any interruptions from other tourists. We had the entire village to ourselves.








We left Heritage Park in style as we rolled down the hill in front of the church. We were quite disappointed that the Mormon Batallion Visitors Center was closed. It is being remodeled and won't be open until 2010. I felt transported in time as we walked through the rest of Old Town. We saw many of the original buildings and learned their history. Neither Brandon nor I could resist the temptation to run our hands over the walls of the very first brick building in San Diego... built by the Mormons.... as it said in the brochure. To think that we were standing in the very spot and were touching the very bricks of our California pioneers seemed to bridge the time gap. The school was another interesting highlight. We marveled at the rules enforced back then and how shocked the original San Diegans would be if they observed the lack of rule enforcement in our schools today.


We were even able to find a little history in a surf shop. Old skateboard decks & surfboards were hung from ceilings, walls, and stashed in corners.




Back at the hotel we met up with the Lawrence's and Oelrich's who had just arrived from their 2 day stay in Disneyland. It was fun to have some adult conversation and a "date night" away from home.




The next day was the San Diego Zoo where the word of the day was "blustery". We heard this word all day. Starting with the weather man on the local news right down to the quirky, mustached zoo tour bus driver who took his job very, very seriously. We saw a few animal shows, ate some high-priced burgers, and I got up-close and personal with a huge, dead, white rat compliments of my thoughtful hubby. Reef wasn't as afraid of the bears as I thought he would be. And I think he was a bit let down that none of the monkeys threw poop at us. (Prior to the trip, he would tell anyone that would listen that he was going to the zoo where monkeys throw their poop.) Thoughts of the bubbly hot tub back at the hotel kept us warm as we endured our blustery but fun day at the San Diego Zoo.





































After the zoo and hot tubbing we decided to take the kids to dinner & a movie. Rather than pay $25 to take the trolley we decide to all load up in Amy's van. That's right... all 16 of us in a Honda Odyssey. Brandon & I took the cargo area. I have always been impressed with the size and depth of the storage capacity in the commercials but never fully appreciated it until I was the cargo. Melinda was on the floor holding a kid or two. Poor Amy. I'm sure it stressed her out to have so many lives hanging precariously in her hands. Thanks for not getting rear ended my friend! I'm sure we were quite a sight getting out of the van. (I wish I had a picture of the Volvo woman's face that we parked next to.) After dinner at California Pizza Kitchen we split up to see a movie. Amy & Josh were truly the heroes of the night. Not only driving us all but taking all of the boys to see Monsters vs. Aliens. Us and the Lawrence's had parent/daughter dates to the Hannah Montanna movie. I. Loved. It.





The next day we couldn't get out of that hotel fast enough. Not just from the excitment of getting on board the ship but Reef was pretty upset over he & Beau getting stuck in the bathroom after showering. Daddy had to huff & puff and practically break that door down. We didn't have to wait long as we were the first group to board the ship. First item of business? The water-slide!! Second order of business? Drying Beau's tears after discovering he's not tall enough for the slide. The water slide was a big deal to this little guy. We kept talking up the vacation and getting him excited for this slide. Little did we know he wasn't quite grasping the idea of it. Since he only has seen one kind of slide on a (house)boat he assumed we would slide right into the ocean but was trusting and willing to try it anyway. We didn't discover this until one night when he asked, "Dad? After we go down the slide, how are we going to be able to catch back up to the ship?" Even Disneyland Daddy's smooth talking didn't buy him a chance to go down. So he soaked up the sun, enjoyed the spa, and every once in a while glanced at that slide with intense longing.


















































My kids definitely like getting star-quality treatment. Mercedes was stoked about not having to make her bed all week. I am quite proud at how they behaved themselves during dinner. It was great for them to learn where the napkins are supposed to go, which fork to eat with, and how to politely order food themselves. Reef, who is usually a wanderer during mealtime (but I'm sure will grow out of it as my other kids have) sat longer than I thought him capable and enjoyed toasting an empty glass to his good friend, Brock.





The Camp Carnival kids program was great and offered fun activities for each age group. They colored T-shirts, had faces painted, went on scavenger hunts, built & erupted volcanoes, danced in the disco, played video games, played Ping-Pong, made art projects.... it was great. We were glad that each of our kids had one of the Lawrence kids in the same age group. Except for Taylor, that is. But she seemed to take it in stride and enjoy herself.


















Mercedes' dreams came true in Ensenada where she got to ride a horse for the first time. It was made even better by being able to horseback on the beach. It was a fun filled hour and nobody laughed harder than Melinda when she fell off her horse and left Brock to his own devices, fearfully clinging to the reins for dear life. I was too busy trying to save the day by attempting to catch Brock's horse to snap any pics but he finally heard his dad yelling at him to pull the reins and was able to stop his horse. Then he jumped off his horse and onto mine probably afraid the horse he had named "Muddy" would bolt off again.













Our shuttle then took us to "La Bufadora" loosely translated as "The Blowhole". It is one of 3 in the world of it's kind and if the tide had been higher it would have been more impressive but we enjoyed it just the same. Walking through the colorful, open-air market I saw the most random thing... a black & white oil painting of Joseph Smith. Then it was time to wash our churro samples down with delicious $1 carne asada tacos & more churros.


















Back on the ship we played mini-golf and Lifeguard Brandon made a heroic save of a drowning boy. Miraculously we were ready for formal night in less than one hour. My kids were honestly looking forward to dressing up. Especially Reef. He couldn't wait to put on his "mosquito"(tuxedo) . That night cookies with smiley faces were waiting for the kids on the bed... with the usual chocolates, of course.


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It seems that we can never go on a trip without some kind of drama making an appearance. We had a 9:25am flight booked and at 8:30am were still awaiting clearance from the local authorities to debark. To make a long story short, Brandon's quick thinking and smooth talking earned us a personal escort to the front of the V.I.P. line from our Australian Cruise Director and we were the first ones off the ship. Our taxi drivers violated a few driving laws and a family showed us some mercy and let us cut in front of them in the security line. The kids were great sports about running (shoeless) to the gate where we made it with less than 5 minutes to spare. Once I had those boarding passes in my hand a HUGE wave of relief washed over me and I had to fight back the tears. We somehow pulled off the impossible.
I'm convinced that cruising is the best family vacation EVER. Although this is the first big vacation like this that we've taken as a family. So, I don't know. Maybe Hawaii would be better? I sure would like to find out.